Trauma can leave you feeling scared, powerless and alone.
It can be hard to trust your own feelings. One moment you’ve got your guard up, keeping people at arm’s length. Next, you’re making yourself small and taking the blame. It can feel like there’s something “bad” in you; that no one could understand you and you deserve to suffer.
These normal trauma responses protected you then. And now you have better ways to protect and care for yourself.
EMDR can help you:
How does EMDR heal trauma?
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. EMDR has proven highly effective in healing trauma, as well as depression, anxiety, and addiction.
During trauma we process and store memories incorrectly. We then experience the traumatic memories and beliefs as if they were happening in the present. And we respond now as we did during the trauma.
EMDR employs a body-based technique of alternating left-right taps or auditory tones called bilateral simulation. Bilateral stimulation is used to activate positive inner states and connect them with traumatic memories.
This sets up a learning state that allows you to take what is useful to you from your experiences and discard what isn’t. You are then left with emotions and beliefs that allow you to move forward in life.
The foundations of EMDR are
EMDR starts with a safe therapeutic relationship where you are heard and respected.
EMDR strengthens your natural capacity for healing and wholeness.
EMDR unfreezes the trauma memories/beliefs and clears the emotional distress.
Bilateral stimulation links the traumatic memories with the healing inner resources. This frees the mind and body to naturally move towards health and wholeness.
Painful memories stop defining you and become just things that happened in the past. You can then move forward in our life, knowing that;
Build a meaningful connection with your therapist. Feeling validated, heard, and respected will improve the therapeutic relationship.
Being honest with yourself is not always easy, so it can be hard to share with your therapist too. When trust and comfort exist, honesty can surface.
Once we are honest with ourselves,
we make room for learning and growth. Growth may look like breaking old patterns, creating new habits, and establishing a plan to meet goals.
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